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Here’s the deal chickadee’s. I recently moved to CA and as such I don’t have internet at home. While I’m waiting for that to get set up I’m trying to keep up on my phone but I don’t like the tumblr app. So with that in mind, I’ll get to your questions when I can, and hopefully I’ll be up and running soon.

Anonymous asked: We have a lot of the same likes. And I dislike crazy ladies yelling.

I don’t know many people that like it when crazy ladies yell.

Anonymous asked: You are weird, but I will not tell you in what way. Probably the last reason you'll think of. What qualifies as a wtf moment?

How about this one: We had a lady yelling at one of my co-workers for no apparent reason. She just kept saying that she didn’t have time to listen to him, that she didn’t come here to listen to him. I think he asked how she was doing. She basically did this until we had to make her leave. 

Anonymous asked: First I'd like to point out that my spider senses were tingling when you answered my question. How did you randomly pop into my head at this exact time? Mysteries of the universe I tell you! But I want to know what YOU like about men and what you like about women.

I like people that know it’s okay to laugh at themselves, that don’t take themselves too seriously, that can enjoy a peanut butter and honey sandwich, that like animals, that can talk about nothing, that get excited when it snows, that will tell me something I’ve never heard before, that make puns, that bite their lips, that think out loud when they are trying to teach people things, that smile with their eyes, that try weird food, that like to bake with me, that will hang out all day sometimes and go camping for weeks other times. I like people.

Anonymous asked: Did you have a good day today ;)

I did, it was long and full of wtf moments, but it was good. It’s about to get even better, I think I’m going to have sherbet. 

queermeetsworld asked: oh my lord. do you ever get tired of awnsering these questions. like it's cool you are so polite but I would get so sick of it and make a faq page. or link people.

Nah, my policy has always been I’d rather people ask questions then be ignorant. If I’m able to answer things in a easy to understand way then why not try?

Anonymous asked: 80 nuggets and no soda in sight, Holy crap! How many did you actually eat?

We had booze that night, and the 80 pieces were split between four people as we watched kid movies. It was great. Also, I have no idea how many I ate but they were decimated.

Anonymous asked: I had a dream Sparrow returned to tumblr. Then the violent squid went missing. Where is this black hole and how do I avoid it?

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Anonymous asked: They say that when you can't sleep at night, its because you are awake in someone else's dream. Would you consider that true?

I’ve never heard that, it’s an interesting concept though. I’ve always liked looking at me dreams and trying to analyze them, but lately I’ve not been able to remember them.

Anonymous asked: I have a personal question relating to pansexual. I have never heard of anyone claiming to be pansexual. How is that different from Bisexual? and I hear you are a transgender male. My other question, yourself being a man stuck in a women's body, where is your mind when you are dating? what do you find attractive in a woman vs. man?

When it comes to labels, things get stupid. There is a general idea that there are four umbrella terms for sexuality: asexuality, homosexuality, bisexuality and heterosexuality (remember, umbrella terms, there are many many more) . Pansexual tends to be used synonymous with bisexual, the difference is in the wording. Bisexual implies that there are only two genders, pansexual implies that there is a wide range of gender. I decided that pansexual described how I felt better because I didn’t just have an attraction to men and women, I had an attraction to people of any expression. That isn’t to say I’m attracted to everyone.